Taking responsibility means actively dealing with your own actions and decisions. In a society that often looks for someone to blame, responsibility is often wrongly equated with guilt. However, this view blocks the path to solving problems and moving forward. It is not about who is “guilty”, but rather about who takes responsibility – because only those who take responsibility can make a difference in a situation.
Responsibility instead of guilt
A key point in accepting responsibility is that it is not about finding a scapegoat. In many conflicts – whether professional or private – our society often tends to look for someone to blame. But this attitude prevents us from finding solutions. If we focus on who is responsible instead of fixating on blame, we can focus on what is important: taking action.
An example: When a project fails in a team, the question often arises as to who is responsible. Instead of thinking about who made the mistake, it would be more productive to ask: What can we do now to solve the problem? This way of thinking leads to a constructive approach to the situation and leaves room for options for action. The question of responsibility replaces the question of guilt.
Responsibility as the key to the ability to act
Those who take responsibility retain their ability to act: without responsibility, we remain passive and helpless, as others take control of the situation. This is an important advantage of responsibility: it gives us the power to change things. Those who bear responsibility are not only able to act, but also to determine the direction.
If you lack this responsibility, you lose your ability to act. Those who never take responsibility give others power over their own lives. In such cases, someone else takes the lead and determines what happens. This leads to a feeling of powerlessness, which in the long term undermines self-confidence and trust in one’s own ability to act.
Powerlessness and its consequences
The feeling of powerlessness arises when we relinquish responsibility and allow ourselves to be driven by external factors. It can give us the feeling that we have lost control of our lives. This feeling of powerlessness often goes hand in hand with a sense of injustice – we believe that we are being wronged, that the world is treating us unfairly.
Such a state often leads to a negative belief: “There is nothing I can do to change my situation.” This thought leads to a downward spiral. It creates stagnation, and those who do not recognize which spiral they are on will most likely remain in the negative one. In this state, we are unable to find solutions and develop more and more negative thoughts. However, there can never be a standstill, because things either go uphill or downhill.
Responsibility as a way out
Those who accept responsibility can break this spiral. By taking responsibility for your own decisions, you become active and capable of taking action. Responsibility means recognizing: “It’s my job to improve the situation.” This realization not only brings us to the solution of the problem, but also gives us back control.
Those who take responsibility no longer feel like victims of their circumstances. Instead, they become the creators of their lives. By accepting responsibility, we can regain control over our actions and our future in any situation. We not only gain the ability to act, but also confidence in ourselves.
Two examples from everyday life
Personal responsibility is particularly important when it comes to investing money: I can simply go to the bank and let an investment advisor decide how to invest my money. If something goes wrong, it’s immediately clear who made the mistake. However, if I have taken responsibility for this myself from the outset and invested my money independently, I can learn from this mistake and do better in the future. I look for solutions and improvements without simply passing the buck to others. In the long term, I will become a true professional who can look to the future with confidence and self-assurance.
Or in my job: if I feel underpaid and at the end of the month I may not even be able to pay my everyday expenses, I can either blame the boss, the inactive trade union or the politicians who are not giving the industry enough of a hard time. But I can also take matters into my own hands and make myself more valuable through further training or overtime, or look for opportunities to build up something on the side. Ultimately, I can look for a completely new employer and try my luck there for a better salary level.
If I just point the finger at others, I automatically give them control and bring my life to a standstill. Conclusion: It’s better to take the reins into your own hands and take responsibility!
- Omondi, Susan (Author)
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